{"id":19320,"date":"2022-09-27T00:00:02","date_gmt":"2022-09-27T06:00:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19320"},"modified":"2024-03-13T12:31:42","modified_gmt":"2024-03-13T18:31:42","slug":"115-3-ways-to-help-your-bullied-clients","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/podcast\/115-3-ways-to-help-your-bullied-clients\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Help Bullied Clients: Podcast 115"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This podcast is the narrated version of my article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/3-ways-to-help-your-bullied-clients\/\"><em>3 Ways to Help Your Bullied Clients<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>If we are to help our bullied clients, the first thing we need to understand is what exactly is happening when someone is being bullied.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In this episode I talk about:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The cruel heart of a bully<\/li>\n<li>Why bullying always blocks one of our emotional needs<\/li>\n<li>Tip one: Help your bullied client meet their needs where they can<\/li>\n<li>Tip two: Discern whether anything makes them a target for bullies<\/li>\n<li>Tip three: Work on your bullied client&#8217;s emotional responses<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Or watch this episode of the podcast on video below:<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"video-container\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/QdyxfjzWLV0\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p><strong>References\/Notes:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol class=\"notes\">\n<li>See: Griffin, J., and Tyrrell, I. (2001).\u00a0<em>Humans Givens: The new approach to emotional health and clear thinking.<\/em>\u00a0CPI Group (UK) Ltd, Croydon. 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