{"id":19293,"date":"2022-08-28T00:00:05","date_gmt":"2022-08-28T06:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19293"},"modified":"2024-03-13T12:35:10","modified_gmt":"2024-03-13T18:35:10","slug":"103-stop-imposter-syndrome-sapping-self-esteem","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/podcast\/103-stop-imposter-syndrome-sapping-self-esteem\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Deal With Imposter Syndrome: Podcast 103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This podcast is the narrated version of my article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/stop-imposter-syndrome-sapping-self-esteem\/\"><em>&#8220;I Feel Like A Fake!&#8221;<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It sounds strange, but positive feedback and compliments can make people suffering from &#8216;imposter syndrome&#8217; feel even worse about themselves.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In this episode I talk about:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;I feel like a fake!&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Who is most likely to fall prey to this negatively distorted sense of who they are?<\/li>\n<li>Real imposters <em>vs<\/em>. fake imposters<\/li>\n<li>Tip 1: Don&#8217;t try to argue them out of it<\/li>\n<li>Tip 2: Bring in Dunning-Kruger<\/li>\n<li>Tip 3: Remind them that it&#8217;s <em>all<\/em> made up<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Or watch this episode of the podcast on video below:<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"video-container\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Ye2x-UCJ6-c\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p><strong>References\/Notes:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol class=\"notes\">\n<li>McElwee, R. 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