{"id":18115,"date":"2021-07-18T12:00:27","date_gmt":"2021-07-18T18:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=18115"},"modified":"2024-03-13T12:45:17","modified_gmt":"2024-03-13T18:45:17","slug":"066-help-aspergers-client-in-their-romantic-life","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/podcast\/066-help-aspergers-client-in-their-romantic-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Help Asperger&#8217;s Client: Podcast 066"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This podcast is the narrated version of my article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/help-aspergers-client-in-their-romantic-life\/\"><em>How to Help Your Asperger&#8217;s Client in Their Romantic Life<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Relationships can be hard to maintain for those on the autistic spectrum. Loneliness and isolation are common, as the seemingly random &#8216;noise&#8217; of emotionality and human interaction leave them feeling constantly overwhelmed. 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