{"id":15369,"date":"2019-07-09T19:51:24","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T01:51:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=15369"},"modified":"2024-03-13T13:20:34","modified_gmt":"2024-03-13T19:20:34","slug":"024-setting-boundaries","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/podcast\/024-setting-boundaries\/","title":{"rendered":"Setting Boundaries in Counselling and Therapy: Podcast 024"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This podcast is the narrated version of my article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/3-ways-to-set-boundaries-in-therapy\/\"><em>3 Firm Fair Ways To Set Boundaries In Therapy<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Setting boundaries with clients doesn&#8217;t always come naturally to therapy practitioners which can lead to problems in the therapeutic relationship and burnout for therapists and counsellors. 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