{"id":15194,"date":"2019-04-08T01:05:14","date_gmt":"2019-04-08T07:05:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=15194"},"modified":"2024-03-13T13:25:13","modified_gmt":"2024-03-13T19:25:13","slug":"011-toxic-mother","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/podcast\/011-toxic-mother\/","title":{"rendered":"Managing a Toxic Mother: Podcast 011"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This podcast is the narrated version of my article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.unk.com\/blog\/help-a-client-to-manage-their-toxic-mother\/\"><em>3 Healing Ways To Help A Client Manage Their Toxic Mother<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Toxic people can severely disrupt the quality of a client&#8217;s life if not dealt with properly. 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