The course is wonderful. I’m just starting the second section. I am so thrilled that someone finally agrees that you can’t push smokers or expect them to respond after one session. I’ve been searching on my own to try to find some method that addresses the addiction/habituation without being so do-or-die, “you’re either ready or your not” judgmental, making the client wrong, insensitive, impractical and dismissive.
So many therapists say that their smoking clients quit after one session. I’ve found that to be the exception so I ended up cringing in fear and confusion when I got a smoking client. I was so relieved to hear Mark say the same thing.
This is a much better approach and has some really wonderful information about the nature of addiction/habituation and how people are so different in their responses. I’ve always rejected the idea that you only take clients who are “ready.”
I always knew that some kind of segmented approach was needed but I couldn’t get a firm handle on how to structure it. This seems really great and I’m already using it with a smoking client. It also seems as if it works for any other addictive/habituative behavior.
This way it seems that the pressure is taken off both client and therapist for perfect, immediate results. It also seems that both the cognitive brain function AND subconscious brain function are used to support each other, which has always been my preference. I find that people do better when they know what to expect and why and, more importantly, how to handle it in the recovery process.
Kudos to Mark and Roger. Please forward this to them. If I had the money, I would gladly pay twice as much for their courses and consider myself lucky. I’m very grateful.