At the heart of depression may lie a sense that life has little value or meaning. Once we connect to a purpose bigger than ourselves, suffering, privations, indignities, and difficulties fade. So how can we help our clients find a greater sense of meaning and therefore purpose?
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How to Use Radical Acceptance Therapy with Your Clients
Radical acceptance means fully accepting reality as it is, without judgement or resistance, even if it’s not what you want it to be. It means practical alignment with truth so we can actually do something! So how can you help your clients who may need to develop radical acceptance?
How to Help Your Client Overcome a Trauma Freeze Response
When a threat is detected, we always freeze for a moment before we fight or flee. The problem arises when we get stuck in that freeze response. Freezing can make us feel powerless, unable to act, as though stuck in a nightmare. So how do we help our clients overcome maladaptive freezing?
How and Why to Use Defamiliarization in Therapy
Emotional problems, addictions, and compulsions of all kinds come to inhabit, then mimic and merge with, a person’s core identity. When we defamiliarize, we are moving the client towards a new way of seeing the problem – and therefore a new way of feeling about it. But how do we do this?
Riding the Wave: Fast-acting ways to use urge surfing with your clients
Catastrophic impulsivity can lay waste to whole lives. And yet if we can just wait a little, the seemingly overwhelming urge to blow out on drink, drugs, or food; buy uncontrollably; or blow up in a fiery ball of rage will, like dew on a summer morning, evaporate fast. So what can we do about […]
The Therapeutic Power of Journaling for Self-Reflection
Far beyond being a simple record-keeping practice, journaling serves as a gateway to the depths of self-reflection and insight and an aid in the development of emotional intelligence. So if you feel a bit of journaling may help your client, how can you usefully get them started?
How to Help Your Hoarding Client Break Free
Hoarding may be a natural instinct. After all, the last ice age only ended 10,000 years ago. Hoarding food for the deep winters was vital for survival. But an instinctive need can sometimes turn into an all-consuming ‘greed’. So what do we need to consider when diagnosing and treating hoarding disorder?
How to Use the ‘Meaning Vacuum’ with Your Clients
The art of relaxing with not knowing is, I think, more profound than many people realize. Being able to suspend judgement, not being too quick to label something as ‘bad’ or ‘good’, can help us see what there really is to see. So how might we use this concept with our clients?
Research Roundup 20
Like a spaceship constantly bombarded with meteorites, during the course of our human lives we find ourselves pelted continually by bits of information. Some of it is valuable, some of it may be essential, and much of it is useless… unless we see where it fits in the greater scheme of things.
How to Help Clients Overcome Fear of Confrontation
Confrontation isn’t always easy and doesn’t always go smoothly. But, like a bitter medicine, it may hold a cure. So what about those who just can’t confront others? If you ever work with clients who feel they would rather do anything than confront someone, I hope these ideas are useful.
